Melanie

  De Jong

Melanie

  De Jong

Hey There, I’m Melanie! I am a former CPA turned personal finance blogger and mom of three. When you ‘Budget With Mel’, you’ll develop monthly budgets, cost-cutting tactics, and learn new behaviors and beliefs about money. It’s time you took the stress and confusion out of your personal finances.

Hey There, I’m Melanie! I am a former CPA turned personal finance blogger and mom of three. When you ‘Budget With Mel’, you’ll develop monthly budgets, cost-cutting tactics, and learn new behaviors and beliefs about money. It’s time you took the stress and confusion out of your personal finances.

How to Know if You are Living Above Your Means

melaniedj • Mar 01, 2019

Living above your means paves the way to a life of debt, little savings, and a wake-up call when retirement time comes.

The problem is, many people have no idea that they are spending more money than they are taking in. This shouldn't come as a surprise, because most people admit that they don't keep very good track of where their money is going.

Here are some key indicators that you are living above your means and it's time to take control of your finances!

INDICATORS YOU ARE LIVING ABOVE YOUR MEANS

Cutting Up Your Credit Cards Would Give You Anxiety

 

 For many people, credit cards are their security blanket. Credit cards are what allows them to live above their means.

 

The problem with this is that credit cards is that they have high interest rates, low minimum payments, and they are usually used to buy things that we can't afford.

 

If you were told you had to cut up your credit cards today, would you be able to pay the balance in full without your bank account wincing? Would you be able to make it to the next paycheck? How many would you have to cut up?

 

Credit cards are convenient. They offer promising rewards.

The problem I have with credit cards is more of a conceptual and behavioral problem.

For instance, you might ask, what's the big deal if I use my credit card, pay it off every month, and only use it to get the cash back?

First, you're not going to get rich off of credit card rewards. Don't tell me you're going to amount major wealth when you get $3 back on $1,000 spent.

You might be a person who uses your credit cards for almost every purchase because of air miles and rewards. There isn't a problem if you keep your spending under control, and pay it off every month, right?

Actually, yes. If you used cash, studies have shown time and time again that you spend at least 20% less with cash.

So that means your 3% cash back and airline miles actually aren't worth it, and the credit card companies have played you!

You are House Poor

If your mortgage payment (plus property taxes and homeowners insurance) is more than 25% of your take home pay, you are house poor.

The average house size has gone up, and the average family size has gone down.

Just turn on your TV and watch a little House Hunters , couples will voice their concern that the kitchen doesn't have all stainless steel appliances and then proceed to call it a total gut job.

We now buy our "dream home" f or our first home.

Our neighborhood is nicer than mom and dads.

The house is bigger than mom and dads.

The truth is we want what mom and dad have right NOW, even though it took mom and dad 50 years to get there.

If your mortgage payment is more than 25% of your TAKE HOME pay (not gross pay), you are house poor.

You Have Little to No Money in Savings

A good rule of thumb is you should have (at least) 3-6 months of household expenses in your savings account.

When you are paying off debt, it's ok to have less than that in savings, but once you get out of debt you should build up that emergency fund!

It's not a question of IF a financial emergency will come, it's a question of WHEN.

Many people go through life spending everything they make. When their car breaks down and needs a $3,000 repair, they scratch their head and wonder how the heck they're going to pay for it.

If they had an emergency fund in place, it wouldn't be an issue of how they are going to pay for the car repair.

Save for a rainy day, because it WILL come!

Payday is a Life Saver

Could you pay your bills if you didn't have your next paycheck?

If you answered no, then you are living paycheck to paycheck, in other words, you don't have enough savings to cover your household expenses without pay for a period of time.

Many people are one "murphy" away from financial ruin.

One thing is guaranteed- rainy days will come. Make sure you are prepared.

You Put Away Under 15% for Retirement

 

If you put away 6% into your 401k and think that'll sustain you in retirement, you're very wrongly mistaken.

 

 

Have you calculated what it will take you to retire? If you want to sustain the lifestyle you have now, 6% ain't gonna cut it, homie.

 

If you can't find enough in your budget to put at least 15% of your gross income away, you are probably living above your means.

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You Make Minimum Payments

 

Has your debt been around for years? Do you make minimum monthly payments and call it good?

 

 

If you have debt and you aren't working like crazy to get out of it, you might be living above your means.

 

If you want to be rich, you need to make rich people decisions. Debt is a broke person decision.

 

Have you ever calculated how long it will take you to pay off your debt if you only make minimum payments? FOREVER.

 

From someone who has been deep in debt, don't get in the habit of just making minimum payments. It's a habit you'll never be able to kick!

No One is Keeping Track of Your Spending

Are you aware of how much money is coming in and out every month? Or do you tell yourself you have an "idea" and that's good enough?

If you don't even have an idea of how much you're spending, you have no way to gauge whether you're living above your means.

Getting on a consistent monthly budget is life-changing. It will suddenly feel like you have more money!

Creating a budget that we can stick to has helped us save for emergencies, pay cash for absolutely everything, and invest for our future!

You Believe Debt is a Tool

My favorite of all lines.... Of course we have debt, it's a tool to help you!

The only kind of debt that is somewhat of a tool is mortgage debt, and even then you have to be careful that you don't become slave to a mortgage payment.

A major problem with most debt is that you are borrowing against a depreciating asset.

The borrow is truly slave to the lender.

When you live above your means, you are willing to sacrifice your financial future and what you want most for what you want NOW.

If you can learn to delay your gratification, you will be so far ahead of most people!

 

If you want to save and invest, you MUST live well below your means.

 

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