Melanie

  De Jong

Melanie

  De Jong

Hey There, I’m Melanie! I am a former CPA turned personal finance blogger and mom of three. When you ‘Budget With Mel’, you’ll develop monthly budgets, cost-cutting tactics, and learn new behaviors and beliefs about money. It’s time you took the stress and confusion out of your personal finances.

Hey There, I’m Melanie! I am a former CPA turned personal finance blogger and mom of three. When you ‘Budget With Mel’, you’ll develop monthly budgets, cost-cutting tactics, and learn new behaviors and beliefs about money. It’s time you took the stress and confusion out of your personal finances.

Why We Don't Have Any Credit Cards

melaniedj • Oct 29, 2017

When asked in a 2017 interview by Inc. to share his best money advice, billionaire entrepreneur Mark Cuban (Shark Tank) answered:

"Don't use credit cards."

He also said in a 2014 interview that the one thing he wishes he knew in his 20's was that credit cards are a bad investment. Coming from a billionaire entrepreneur, I'll take his advice any day!

The credit card industry has successfully convinced many Americans that they need VISA to survive. Credit cards have been so aggressively and so thoroughly marketed that people truly do believe they need one to get through life or that somehow they are saving money and building wealth with the rewards they offer.  However, the rising credit card debt in America shows that many Americans are relying on credit cards, not just using them for rewards and cash back like many claim.

In fact, recent data shows that the typical consumer has $2,200 in credit card debt carrying a 16% interest rate. Yikes.

At some point, we have all fallen prey to believing some sort of money myth that will or has hurt us in the long run. For me, I believed that you can't go to college without going into debt. Because of this, my husband and I have spent the last year sacrificing many things to pay off $20k of student loan debt!

Call us crazy, but we have found great financial success without credit cards. Below I lay out some reasons people have encouraged us to have credit cards, and why we don't take their advice.

Common Credit Card Misconceptions

What About the Rewards?!

Let me guess - The airline miles make it all worth it. I can't tell you how many times I've heard this. People think they are "beating the system" because they are getting cash back or airline miles. I have some really big news. Credit card companies are not stupid. In fact, they are really smart. That is why they are a billion dollar industry.

Do you REALLY think that an industry with some of the most extensive marketing and consumer behavior research departments is giving you free stuff?!

Airline Miles 

Sign up bonus. Free pizza. A pony.

It seems like credit card companies and airline loyalty programs are coming up with pretty creative and tempting ways to bait their prey. Here is my problem with airline miles- you often pay more in annual fees for a credit card than you would for the ticket you "earned."

Additionally, A recent study found that seven of the eight major airline loyalty programs surveyed sold rewards for twice their average redemption value, or more.

Cash Back

The average cash back amount for a credit card in the US in 2017 is 1%. That means if you put $4,000 on a credit card in any given year, you will get $40 back. So, if your card has an annual fee (most cards with any sort of rewards do), the annual fee has to be under $40 in order to be above break-even.

If you card doesn't have an annual fee, I can bet you bought something for $40 that you normally would not have simply because you coaxed  yourself into thinking "I get cash back anyways."

 I don't know anyone who has attributed their wealth to credit card rewards.

Credit Doesn't Hurt!

Credit is convenient. However, the convenience comes with a hefty price. When Uncle Ben is smiling at you on the counter in the checkout line, it physically PAINS you to hand him over.

When you spend cash, you have less in your wallet. You see this and you process it.  Paying for a $5 latte when you have $10 in your wallet might seem like a lot.

On the other hand, when you have a credit card with a $5,000 limit on it, it seems like a drop in the bucket.

When you use credit , there is a disconnect between your emotions and your activity.

As a result, three main things happen- you spend more, you are more likely to make impulsive purchases, and you overall enjoy your purchases less.

For instance, those who use cash in the grocery store spend 22% less than those who use a card (credit or debit) and using credit increases the chance they will buy junk food (because cash makes you justify your purchase)! Double whammy. 

Generate some pain - use cash. Get my vertical or horizontal editable floral cash envelopes to help curb your impulse spending and start saving more money!

A Credit Card Should Not Be Your Emergency Fund

Here's another favorite- "I have a credit card in case of an emergency."

If you do not have a cash flowed emergency fund like any responsible adult should, then you may be tempted to keep a credit card around for emergencies. Instead of saving up and putting money away for a rainy day, Americans would rather have a credit card and use it to pay for emergencies and PAY INTEREST on that emergency!

Before you know it your new iPhone becomes an emergency. Vacation becomes an emergency. Christmas becomes an emergency.

I would advise cutting up the credit cards and disciplining yourself financially to put 3-6 months of household expenses in the bank as an emergency fund, and USE REAL, PHYSICAL money for emergencies.

Instead of using a credit card for emergencies, create sinking funds and budget for each fund every month.

 

If you feel like you're already stretched for money and there's no way you can squeeze out any more to build up an emergency fund, see my post about 8 Things You Are Spending Too Much Money On .

 

 

Why Play with Fire?

Credit cards make it really really easy to spend money that you don't have. Most cards require that you only pay 1-3% of your balance every month!

At some point the average person with a credit card ends up with a balance. Of those households that do have credit card debt, the average amount was $16,883 for Q2 2017! All it takes is one missed or late payment and your interest rate is jacked up (from the already high 18%), you'll get hit with fees, and your credit score will be hurt.

Another reason I stay away from them is because once you have one card, you'll probably want more. In fact, according to CardWeb.com, of the 185 million Americans who carry credit cards the average person carries three bank-issued credit cards, four retail credit cards and one debit card.

That's definitely not a habit I want to start.... so why enable myself?

Yes, You Can Buy A House Without a Credit Card

It's a common myth that you need a credit score to buy a house. It takes a little more work up front, but you can do it.

Truth: All a good credit score means is that you have interacted with debt a lot.

A good credit score is NOT a sign of handling money well. In fact, the only thing it measures is how much you like to BORROW money.

You CAN rent an apartment without having a credit score. You CAN buy a house without having a credit score. You will just have to provide some other form of paperwork like rent and utility bills for the past year.

Do not mindlessly follow other Americans and bow down to the FICO score.

The Borrower is Truly Slave to the Lender

I know what you're thinking. If you have a credit card and don't carry a large balance, pay it off every month, and use it responsibly, what's the big deal? 

Proverbs 22:7 says: "The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is slave to the lender."

The truth is, if you have any form of debt (including credit card debt) that exceeds what you currently have in your bank account,  you are broke , and you are a slave to the lender.

 

I'm not saying this to discourage you, I want you to understand and then get motivated. Pay off any debt you have as fast as you can! Your income is your most powerful tool in building wealth, and if it is tied up to payments every month, you won't have much left to work with to save and invest!

 We do not have credit cards because we do not want to go into consumer debt and have monthly payments. Moreover, we do not want to be tempted to buy things we can't afford.

We'd rather enjoy our hard-earned, cash-flowed purchases.

Because if i'm being honest, you don't deserve anything that you didn't save and pay cash for.

That is my take on credit cards- take it or leave it .

This is what has worked for us. I know many successful people who use credit cards, and many, many, successful people who don't!

Personally, I think they are a bad investment and they are not a wealth-building tool, therefore I stay away from them.

We Live on a Budget Instead

Living on a monthly budget allows us to give every single dollar of our income a purpose and ensure that we are living below our means. With credit cards, it becomes too tempting and easy to buy things that aren't in the budget that month.


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