Melanie

  De Jong

Melanie

  De Jong

Hey There, I’m Melanie! I am a former CPA turned personal finance blogger and mom of three. When you ‘Budget With Mel’, you’ll develop monthly budgets, cost-cutting tactics, and learn new behaviors and beliefs about money. It’s time you took the stress and confusion out of your personal finances.

Hey There, I’m Melanie! I am a former CPA turned personal finance blogger and mom of three. When you ‘Budget With Mel’, you’ll develop monthly budgets, cost-cutting tactics, and learn new behaviors and beliefs about money. It’s time you took the stress and confusion out of your personal finances.

50 Insanely Clever Ways to Have a Budget Wedding

melaniedj • Aug 08, 2019

From a budget bride myself, I'd like to share 50 of the best frugal wedding tips for the thrifty bride!

For pictures and details of how we saved thousands at our own wedding, click here to read my most popular wedding post.

This is how I saved money on my wedding, by prioritizing, budgeting, and cutting costs!

50 FRUGAL WEDDING TIPS

1. Use Fake Flowers.

We used a lot of fake flowers, and you honestly couldn't tell the difference from real ones. Be sure to compare prices with real flowers, because if you buy real flowers in bulk they can sometimes be cheaper than fake flowers.

2. Rent Your Dress.

You can rent a thousand dollar dress for a couple hundred dollars. Consider renting your dress or buying used if you're not that sentimental about your dress!

3. Get Married on a Weekday.

Skip the Saturday wedding for sure to save money, but to REALLY save money get married on a weekday. Getting married on a weekday saved us over $1,000.

4. Buy Flowers from Sams Club or Costco and Make Your Own Bouquets.

We spent a couple hundred dollars on flowers for our wedding because we bought flowers in bulk from a wholesaler and put the bouquets together ourselves!

Sam's Club has amazingly beautiful premade wedding flowers and bulk flowers for a fantastic low price.

There are hundreds of options to choose from, and it's A LOT cheaper than going through a florist!

They will deliver the flowers two days prior to your wedding!

5. Order Invites, Programs and Save the Dates Online.

You can save so much money by ordering invites online, and specifically through a wholesaler like Sam's Club or Costco. Minted also has some great options, and they frequently do specials! Check out the beautiful save the date pictured below!

You can get wedding invites, save the date's and programs for 68 cents per card at Sam's Club. That's way cheaper than using Shutterfly or Vistaprint.

6. Have the Ceremony and Reception at the Same Place.

Having the ceremony and reception at the same place means less decor, only one rental fee, and no limo/party bus needed! Plus, it often makes the events of the night go smoother.

7. Buy Alcohol in Bulk from a Wholesaler Instead of Through Your Venue/Caterer.

Alcohol can be a large expense, depending on how many guests you have. Most of it will end up in half full cups. If possible, buy your own alcohol in bulk and hire a bartender. You can save thousands!

8. Use a Family Friend for Day of Coordinator.

Instead of paying a coordinator, have a family member or family friend be your day of coordinator and give them a gift card.

9. Have the Rehearsal Dinner at Your Home or Your Parents Home.

Often times rehearsal dinners can end up being $1-$2k depending on the size of your wedding party. Have the dinner at a family home instead!

10. Buy Engagement and Weddings Rings Online.

You can save a lot of money by ordering your wedding rings and engagement rings online instead of through a traditional jeweler.

Try looking at Sam's Club , you can always return or exchange!

11. Buy The Sample Dress.

If you buy the dress on the rack not only will you have it in your possession sooner, but you'll pay close to half the price depending on the shop.

12. Choose an Off-Peak Date.

Choose a December- April wedding date and you'll probably get a lower price on your venue. This is the "off wedding season."

13. Choose Decor Other than Flowers.

Shift the focus of your decor and utilize items/styles other than flowers. Pinterest has tons of ideas for non-flower decor!

14. Use a New Photographer/Student Photographer.

It's no secret that the wedding photographer is often times one of the major wedding expenses besides the dress, venue, and food.

Ask around for student recommendations, or find a local photography school and inquire about student hires.

While they might need a little more direction on what kind of photo's you want, the QUALITY of the photos are usually just as good!

15. Get Sheet Cakes from the Grocery Store.

I'll let you in on a secret. You can get a wedding cake that looks identical to one custom made at a bakery from the grocery store for half the price! Don't be afraid to do sheet cakes for your guests!

16. Create a List of Priorities.

If you're looking to save money on your wedding, you'll probably have to cut a few things out.

Sit down with your future spouse and create a list of what your top priorities are for the day- and allocate your budget accordingly.

17. Borrow, borrow, borrow.

Don't be afraid of asking to borrow. If you know of someone who recently had a wedding, inquire about borrowing some of their stuff!

18. Go Thrifting.

If you are willing to spend some time thrifting, you can save a ton of money on decor. Many people pack up all their decor after a wedding and drop it off at a thrift store instead of letting it take up space.

19. Skip the Party Bus/Limo.

If you have the wedding and reception at different places, skip the party bus and have your bridal party drive themselves.

20. DIY Your Decor.

There's a lot you can do with a Cricuit machine (seriously, a lot) and some crafty friends and/or family.

21. Get Bridesmaid Dresses Online.

Amazon has some great dresses available for a low price . You can snag some really cute dresses for around $50! Even if you aren't paying for the dresses, this is a great way to keep your bridesmaids costs low!

22. Find a Venue that Allows You to Choose Your Own Caterer.

You can really save if you choose a venue that allows you to bring in your own food. This way you can search around for a while and price out different options.

Any time you have to use the venue's caterer you'll end up spending more.

23. Get Married & Have the Reception at Your Church.

Often times if you are a member of a church, you can use the building for super cheap or for free. Take advantage of it!

24. Have Bridesmaids Wear Their Own Shoes.

One of the most ridiculous expenses (in my humble opinion) is bridal party shoes. Just have them wear their own, just choose the color. I had my bridesmaids bring their own shoes and the only stipulation was that they were nude.

25. Skip the Bridal Jewelry.

Have your bridesmaids wear their own jewelry (just choose the style so they match). Let's be honest, no ones pays attention to what the bridesmaids are wearing.

26. Sell Some Things to Earn Extra Cash.

If you need some extra cash, don't be afraid to sell some things you don't need anymore. This is an easy way to make some extra cash.

27. Do Your Own Wedding Makeup.

There are tons of tutorials by makeup guru's on Youtube showing how to do your own lasting, professional looking makeup.

You can save anywhere from $40-$150 by doing your own makeup!

28. Break from Tradition.

Don't be afraid to break some wedding traditions. Prioritize which traditions are important to you and your future spouse, and skip the rest.

I didn't wear a veil, because I didn't like how it looked on my face. Plus it saved us some money!

29. Keep Track of Your Spending.

A budget is essential to creating and sticking to a money plan for your wedding.

You need a budget to keep track of everything and to see the overall picture.

A great idea is to keep a binder that stows all your wedding information, including (and probably most importantly), a master wedding budget.

My Master Wedding Budget Bundle is an elegant, chic budget template that you can either print and fill out or fill in on your computer, it's fully editable!

Included is a bonus page that allows your to track amounts you owe to various suppliers.

Creating and sticking to a money budget for your wedding is great practice for budgeting as a couple when you're married!

If you aren't already living on a budget , getting on one ASAP is key to financial happiness and success in your marriage.

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30. Keep the Centerpieces Simple.

Have low maintenance centerpieces. There is already so much on the table that you don't need much for a centerpiece.

31. Shop Your House and Your Families Houses First.

Chances are you have a ton of decor on your walls or laying around your home that you can use for your wedding. Scavenger your parents and siblings houses too for some wedding goods.

32. Use Rakuten (Ebates) When Making Online Purchases to Get Cash Back.

If you're doing a lot of online purchasing, Rakuten (formerly Ebates) offers cash back at almost every store.

They run specials frequently where they offer double or triple cash back at certain stores, including popular wedding stores like Macy's, JC Penny, Minted, David's Bridal, Bed Bath & Beyond and Crate&Barrel.

This is free money , don't pass it up!

33. Have an Outdoor Wedding that Doesn't Require Much Decor.

Outdoor weddings can be super cheap because the backdrop doesn't need much dressing up! Opt to have an outdoor wedding if you're confident about the weather.

34. Offer Signature Drinks At a Discounted Price Instead of an Open Bar.

If you want to have more than just beer and wine without breaking the bank, offer one or two (bride and groom) signature drinks that guests can buy at a discounted price (or for free) and then a full cash bar for other drinks.

35. Be Creative with Catering.

I've been to a few weddings that had cheaper cuisine (think taco bar, Qdoba), and it was AMAZING! Think outside the box with your catering. You don't need a steakhouse caterer to have good food!

36. Create Your Own Photo Booth.

This new trend can be pretty spendy, DIY it yourself instead! Make the background, buy a photo booth kit, and let guests use their own cameras to snap a photo.

37. Sell Everything After the Wedding.

A quick way to earn some of your money back is to sell everything immediately after the wedding! Pick a few things to keep and get rid of the rest. If you wait a while, it probably won't happen, so do it right away!

38. You Don't Have to Personalize EVERYTHING.

Choose a few things to personalize, and skip the rest! For example, I didn't personalize our napkins, we just bought plain napkins from a wholesaler.

39. Skip Save the Dates.

Save the dates are not a necessity. If you have a really tight budget, skip them. We ordered ours from Costco for under $100.

40. Use Your Coupons.

Hobby Lobby is a store that almost every bride ends up having a receipt from. If you are buying an item at full price, don't do it unless you have their 40% off coupon handy!

41. Wear Comfy, Inexpensive Shoes.

I went barefoot most of wedding, but when I was wearing shoes it was inexpensive flats. Unless you have a short dress, skip the fancy bridal shoes!

42. Have a Small Bridal Party.

Only have family, or only have a few friends. If you really want to save money, keep the bridal party small.

43. Skip Cocktail Hour.

Only serve drinks with the meal. Alcohol can be one of the biggest expenses, so to cut costs open the bar once dinner is served.

44. Skip the Champagne on Tables.

Make your guests go to the bar if they want a bubbly drink for the toast. Most of the champagne bottles on the tables end up unopened, or half-drank.

45. Skip Favors.

Most people don't take them, and you're already offering a meal and a night of entertainment, plus booze!

46. Have a Dessert Buffet Instead of Cake.

We had cupcakes instead of cake, and paid someone $100 to make them all. It was enough for 250 guests! Much cheaper than cake.

47. Ask Friends & Family to Do Clean Up Duty.

No need to hire a cleanup crew, ask your close friends and family to do it instead! We asked our families to help out and they were more than willing!

48. Keep Bachelorette and Engagement Parties Low Key.

I'm sorry, but bachelorette and bachelor parties have gotten out of control! Weekends in Vegas, going to Mexico, and week long vacation for everyone involved is becoming the norm. Skip the expensive party (for everyone's sake), and save the cash for your wedding or honeymoon instead!

49. Elope!

To really keep costs down, elope with your honey! Eloping and/or destination weddings are a cost effective way to get married! Consider having a low key reception with friends and family after the wedding.

50. Make Extra Money.

If you want to have a few things for your wedding that aren't in the budget, make some extra money so they can be in the budget! Many people are surprised at how easy it is to make some extra cash. For long-term extra income, consider blogging about your wedding experience and how you cut costs! I make a great part time income blogging, and it keeps growing every month!

ON A FINAL NOTE

Truth be told, there's not a lot most people will remember about your wedding day.

Don't sweat the small stuff.

Quit comparing yourself to other brides with bottomless budgets.

Having a beautiful wedding on a budget is possible if you prioritize what is most important to you, make a few sacrifices, and if you willing to put in a little work!

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