Melanie

  De Jong

Melanie

  De Jong

Hey There, I’m Melanie! I am a former CPA turned personal finance blogger and mom of three. When you ‘Budget With Mel’, you’ll develop monthly budgets, cost-cutting tactics, and learn new behaviors and beliefs about money. It’s time you took the stress and confusion out of your personal finances.

Hey There, I’m Melanie! I am a former CPA turned personal finance blogger and mom of three. When you ‘Budget With Mel’, you’ll develop monthly budgets, cost-cutting tactics, and learn new behaviors and beliefs about money. It’s time you took the stress and confusion out of your personal finances.

7 Holiday Shopping Habits of People Who Value Their Money

melaniedj • Nov 29, 2019

Do you find yourself with a lot more gifts than money in your bank account after doing your holiday shopping?

According to the NRF , holiday shoppers will spend an average of $1,047 this holiday season, and considering over half of Americans wouldn't be able to cover a $1,000 emergency, this is a big hit for many.

So why doesn't anyone seem to be that stressed about it?

Because they have their plastic friend to come to the rescue- allowing them to spend money they don't have and pay for it later!

Or, they want to so badly for their kids to feel included with all the other 10-year-olds getting ipads for Christmas so they drain their bank account and hold their breath until the next paycheck.

Friends, there is a better way to do your holiday shopping, because yes, it can be fun!

What makes it really fun is not having the stress of your holiday spending following you into the new year!

Here's how to have a financially stress-free (I can't promise your family won't cause you any havoc ;) ) holiday season!

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HOLIDAY SHOPPING HABITS OF THE FINANCIALLY FREE

1. They Don't Overextend Themselves

Sometimes without knowing, many Americans overextend themselves financially, especially during the holidays.

Have you ever felt the pressure to spend beyond your means in the spirit of the holiday season? You are not alone! I've felt like this many times myself!

Many feel like they've been pressured into spending more than their bank account could handle on gifts, food, and other holiday celebrations.

I'm here to tell you that you don't need to feel guilty for living within your means.

Just because you aren't willing to sacrifice your savings and investing goals to join ANOTHER gift exchange doesn't make you the grinch, and you're not ruining Christmas.

Constantly ask yourself this holiday season, "are we overextending ourselves?" If the answer is yes, scale it back!

2. They Aren't Afraid to Say No

Those who value money have learned to say no to things that don't align with their priorities.

Saying no to a lot of little things (like extra gifts, vacations, etc) allows you to say yes to a few big things (retiring early, paying off your debt, paying off your home, etc).

What I'm not saying is don't buy any Christmas gifts, what I am saying is be okay with saying no to things that aren't in the budget!

3. Credit Card Debt is Out of the Question

Carrying last years expenses into the New Year is a great way to make sure you spend the next year struggling to make it to break even.

Don't keep your plastic friend lurking in your wallet or purse ready to use as a crutch to bridge the gap between your income and your spending.

I have a super simple proven process for beating credit card debt - pay them off, close the accounts, cut them up, throw them away and start using cash.

I like to use cash envelopes like my floral watercolor envelopes pictured below to do my Christmas shopping because it's a lot harder to hand Uncle Ben over the counter than it is to swipe a card.

Using cash for your holiday shopping will help change your spending behavior, which is the goal!

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4. Spending is Planned

When Christmas and other holidays are in the budget , they are a lot less stressful.

Living on a budget doesn't mean you never spend any money. Rather, you spend every dollar on paper BEFORE the month begins.

As a result, you will feel the freedom of knowing that you have a plan, and that plan gives you permission to spend within budget without guilt!

If you have never done or have had trouble sticking to a budget, snag my editable PDF budget templates below in my shop!

Getting on a budget will allow you to save for Christmas year-round instead of scramming to buy gifts and consequently draining your bank account.

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5. They Stretch Every Dollar

When you start to value your money, you stretch every dollar as far as it can go, no matter how much money is or isn't coming in.

If I'm out shopping, rather than buying what I'm out to get at the first store, I price compare for the best deal (if the savings is worth more than my time).

Instead of going to the grocery store every day and planning dinner at the last minute, I make my best effort to meal plan faithfully every week. I pay $5 for a meal planning service that does it for me. In my opinion, $5 per month is worth it when I save $100 a month on groceries.

Stretching every dollar is a habit of people who value money they worked hard for.

6. Gift's Aren't the Center

While most people enjoy getting and receiving gifts at Christmas, people who value their money know that gifts aren't the focus of Christmas.

My husband and I don't even get each other any Christmas gifts (gasp) !

The only gifts we do are stocking stuffers for each other with things that we need. The gifts aren't the focus of our Christmas. We genuinely enjoy each others company and our families company!

However, the most important reason for the season is making Jesus Christ the center of our holiday. He came to pay the ultimate price so that we may have life!

7. They Don't Compare to Others

Have you ever listened to someone else talk about all the money they were spending on gifts? Or rather, all the gifts they got this year?

Soon enough, you start to wonder why your husband didn't buy you a new apple watch, a trip to the Bahamas, and the latest suburban.

I mean c'mon, does he even care? ;)

At one time, I struggled with constantly comparing myself to others. I still have days I struggle, but I've learned that it isn't worth it.

I'm no longer impressed by how much money someone is spending on gifts or what they got for Christmas. I'm impressed by how much they save, invest, and steward their money!

If you struggle with comparison, leave your phone somewhere out of sight during the holidays. Stop scrolling, start giving thanks.

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