Melanie

  De Jong

Melanie

  De Jong

Hey There, I’m Melanie! I am a former CPA turned personal finance blogger and mom of three. When you ‘Budget With Mel’, you’ll develop monthly budgets, cost-cutting tactics, and learn new behaviors and beliefs about money. It’s time you took the stress and confusion out of your personal finances.

Hey There, I’m Melanie! I am a former CPA turned personal finance blogger and mom of three. When you ‘Budget With Mel’, you’ll develop monthly budgets, cost-cutting tactics, and learn new behaviors and beliefs about money. It’s time you took the stress and confusion out of your personal finances.

How We Save $13,000 a Year By Cutting These Costs!

melaniedj • Dec 03, 2018

Whenever I hear people say that they legitimately cannot save any money, in my head I think of a list of five to ten expenses that they probably currently have that they could cut in order to save money. In fact, I'm going to tell you exactly how we save thousands of dollars by cutting costs. 

A significant reason why most people can't save money is because our culture has taught us that we DESERVE these things, and no one can tell us otherwise.

How dare someone challenge what we spend every month?! How dare someone suggest that we are living above our means?

Woe is me, we have no extra money after we’ve paid for our new iPhone X, drive a $40,000+ car, and buy a house that costs us over 25% of our monthly paycheck. WOE. IS. ME.

 

Don’t tell me you can’t save any money. Not having enough money is NOT the issue. Living above your means is the issue.

I’m a super frugal person, it’s my personality. We have plenty of money, but we choose to spend our money intentionally.

I’ve been called cheap, poor, tight, etc. many times. It really doesn’t bother me, because I really don’t care what other people think. We have put ourselves in a position financially where we live WELL below our means, and we do so ON PURPOSE. Crazy, right?!

We spend intentionally.

We do this so that we can have an adequate emergency fund, pay cash for ALL of our purchases, invest, pay for Christian school someday, fund a comfortable retirement, give to our Church, and honor God above all with our finances.

So, if you feel like you don’t have enough to save, you’re pinching every penny and doing all that you can, take heart because I have some tips to help you save!

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HOW WE SAVE THOUSANDS EVERY YEAR BY CUTTING THESE COSTS

Cable

Before we cut the cord, we were paying $120 for cable and internet every single month, which is pretty standard.

We decided to cut the cord on cable since there are so many other options available.

We did have to increase our internet package, so we pay $70 a month for internet. We then switched to Sling TV, which was $22 per month and is TV that is streamed through your internet. We liked Sling, however the commercials are pretty racy and inappropriate, so we cut the cord on that too.

My parents then decided to dump their cable and get DirectTV Now, which is also a cheaper TV option that runs on your internet. The benefit of this is that you can have up to three users streaming at once! So now we just use this!

This is a GREAT option if you can find another family that wants to go a cheaper route for TV, and has one main television that they use (obviously this won’t work if you have three different TV’s in your house).

Total savings on cable: $50 per month x 12 months = $600.

Cell Phone Upgrades

If you say that you don’t have any extra money to save and you have the latest iPhone or any one of the latest models, THAT IS ON YOU.

Do you realize how much money you can save simply by opting for one of the older models?!

Typically with a phone upgrade, you add $30 per month to your monthly phone bill.

I just recently needed a new cell phone as mine would not hold a charge longer than two hours. Instead of going to the Verizon store and having them try to convince me for an hour that the only solution is the latest, most expensive iPhone, I opted instead to find an older, cheaper model.

I bought mine from a store that sells phones at a discounted price because they are used trade-ins.

I got my iPhone 7 for $250, it has 32GB of storage, has been tested, and comes with a warranty.

This is one small sacrifice I choose to make so that we have money for more important things, like saving, investing, vacation, and a new car paid for with cash.

Total savings by choosing an older model: $30 per month x 12 months = $360.

Is that brand new phone worth it?

Eating Out Less

Some Americans plan and budget for every time they eat out. For others, eating out is just another Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and every weekend.

Statistics have shown that most Americans fall into the second category.

According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics , the average family spends $3,008 per year eating out.  

$3,000 FREAKING DOLLARS.

This is money that could be in your savings or investment account if you’d just cook your own damn dinner!

I budget $120 for eating out every month. This typically allows us two date nights per month.

So, if the average American family spends $250 per month eating out ($3,000/12), we save $130 per month since we only budget $120.

Total savings by reducing eating out: $130 per month x 12 months = $1,560.

Bring Your Lunch to Work

If you go out to eat every workday and spend on average $10 per day, that adds up to a whopping $2,500 a year.

Making your own lunch will at LEAST cut that in half.

For my family, I use $5 Meal Plan , so every single meal I make at home costs under $5, and I pay $5 per month for this meal planning service that sends me the recipes for the week every Friday as well as an organized shopping list.

As a busy, working mom, I have absolutely no time to waste. My time is priceless.

So, I decided that $5 per month was worth it to make sure that we stay on track with our grocery budget and enjoy a good, hearty meal. If I didn’t use this service, we would probably be eating out at least three times per week (especially during tax season)!

So, every meal costs me $5 and I usually have PLENTY of leftovers for lunch the next day. So every lunch actually costs me LESS than $5 to make at home.

However, for argument's sake, I’ll be conservative and say that every lunch I bring from home cost me $5 to make.

Total savings by making meals at home: $5 x 5 work days per week x 52 weeks = $1,300.

Avoid Expensive Bar Tabs

Right along with eating out, when we first got married, we would go out at least once a weekend, and spending anywhere from $50-$100 on bar tabs. 

Does this sound familiar? Alcohol is expensive, and that is why it is the biggest money maker for most restaurants. In fact, here are some of the average markups on alcohol:

Craft Beer: 325-400%

Wine: 300-500%

Top-Shelf Liquor: 400%

Bottom-Shelf Liquor: 500-1,000%

Don’t get me wrong, I love me some fine wine and fruity, boozy cocktails.   I’m admittedly a wine-o. Instead of going out and paying a small fortune for these drinks, I opt instead to make them at home.

Of course when we do go out to dinner, I will get a cocktail. However, I limit it to one cocktail. I honestly can’t stand the markup on alcohol. It pains me. It’s my personality- I think of EVERYTHING in terms of cost-benefit analysis.

For the purpose of the money savings calculation, let’s take the low end of our average weekly bar tab, which was $50.

Total savings by skipping the bar: $50 per week x 52 weeks = $2,600.

That Bahama Mama suddenly doesn’t go down so smooth, am I right?

Shop Around For Insurance

Most people simply take the quote they are given for insurance and don’t even look into alternative options because they assume they are probably all about the same.

We saved $60 per month by shopping around for auto insurance.

I would encourage you to shop around for homeowners and auto insurance, don't just ask for one quote and stop there. You can almost always find a cheaper option if you just take the time to shop around! 

Total savings by shopping around for insurance: $60 per month x 12 = $720.

Buy a Used Car With CASH

The average monthly car payment in the U.S. is $523. No wonder half of Americans don't have more than $1,000 in savings and are living paycheck to paycheck. 

We pay for all of our vehicles with cash.

We will NEVER, EVER finance a vehicle. Financing a vehicle is honestly one of the absolute stupidest financial decisions you could ever make.

Mature, responsible adults practice self-discipline and SAVE for a new vehicle that they can pay for with cash.

I know what you’re thinking…

But I got 0% interest!

Congratulations… there is no such things as 0% interest. It just means the interest is tacked on to the purchase price of the vehicle.

Do you HONESTLY think you outsmarted a car dealership? C’mon.

But I can afford the monthly payment, so why not?

The problem lies in your definition of affordability. Being able to afford an item means you have enough CASH to pay for the item RIGHT NOW.

Affordability is not defined in the term of monthly payments.

Those who make monthly payments simply live above their means and try to create the illusion of a lifestyle that they will be paying off for years.

Alright, rant over. Onto the savings. 

Total cost savings by only purchasing used vehicles with cash: $523 per month x 12 months = $6,276.

TO SUM IT UP…

Total savings by cutting or reducing these expenses is $13,416 per year!

If you feel like you can’t save, have you considered cutting any of these costs? Once you cut these costs, the key is to create a budget so that you ensure those costs that were cut actually go into savings, rather than blowing the extra money on something else.

If you want to learn how to budget, check out my monthly budget templates and household financial planning guide.

It has everything you need to get started budgeting, saving, and paying off debt!

Here is a preview of what's inside...

This budget bundle includes everything that I personally use to keep our finances on track.

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There is always ways to find money to save, they just require sacrifice and self-discipline .

If you truly are serious about saving money and taking control of your finances, learn to live below your means. It is impossible to build wealth by living above your means (and being in debt).

I hope these expenses that we cut give you some ideas on ways that YOU can save!

Until next time!

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